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Showing posts with label bully. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bully. Show all posts

Saturday, September 3, 2016

The Verbal Abuse of Autistic Children: A Silent Social Problem

(Originally posted for The Voice of Heard on April 28, 2012)

As most people familiar with autism already know, the developmental disorder makes self-expression for children and adults affected by autism difficult at best and impossible at worst. That aspect of the disability alone makes them susceptible to a social problem that would go unnoticed by their families and friends: verbal abuse. I bring up this fact because two days ago, I read an article in the Telegram and Gazette about how an autistic 10-year-old boy has been going through verbal abuse at his New Jersey school and how his father found out about it by placing a hidden tape recorder on him upon receiving reports of outbursts and physical violence against teachers. Though the recordings, the father learned how members of the school’s staff were calling his son names like “bastard,” “tard,” “a hippo in a ballerina suit,” and “little dog.” Just today, I read that a teacher was placed on paid leave by the school upon learning of the probe. Legal and privacy issues aside, I find this treatment against a child who can’t express the problem on his own to be revolting. In my opinion as an autistic individual, the teachers responsible for this abuse seem to consider children like him to be sub-human. According to the article, there have been at least nine other incidents across the US since 2003 in which verbal abuse against autistic children at school. Those were only officially reported cases. Now I’m not trying to raise a panic among parents here, but I wonder if there are other such incidents that are going unreported due in part to the fact that autistic children have difficulty expressing themselves, especially when it comes to them being mistreated by other people.

Saturday, September 13, 2014

Bullying Autism: An Injustice Under the Radar

Bullying is fairly common at schools regardless of grade level. Sometimes, it gets reported and dealt with appropriately. Otherwise, it does not get reported and continues with impunity. Sometimes, it gets swept under the rug when it does get reported. This situation is truly a socially problematic one, especially with autistic children, teens, and young adults being bullied (some in ways in which are especially vicious), as indicated in recent online news reports I have been reading. A long time ago, I was a victim of bullying myself. In high school, I got into a couple of fights with such bullies. On a few occasions, I witnessed a college with autism being bullied, prompting me to stand up to them. But since then, I have moved on with my life, preparing myself for future prospects such as a career in the video game industry. Occasionally, memories of the most violent bullying linger come back to me. Upon reading recent news stories of autistic children and teens being bullied, these incidents are, to say the least, more monstrous than what I have gone through. If I were in the position of those victims myself, the experience would have been horrific and my future would have been placed in jeopardy. The following stories are by far the most disturbing accounts of bullying autistic children and teens ever to be read by anyone with an autistic relative and anyone who is autistic.